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Auditioning for Love: Healing from a Father's Unreachable Heart
Growing up with a father who was physically there but emotionally distant leaves a unique kind of ache. It’s not the obvious absence that wounds you, but the invisible barrier between you and the man who should have been your protector and source of tenderness. I learned early on that love wasn’t freely given in my home. Instead, it felt like a performance, a constant audition where I had to be prettier, funnier, calmer, or more perfect just to be noticed. This post is my ref
Martha Her
2 hours ago4 min read


Navigating Life's Emotional Transitions Guided by Faith
Change often arrives quietly but carries a powerful emotional weight. Whether it’s watching children grow up and leave home or deciding to sell a family house and start a new chapter with a partner, these moments stir a mix of excitement, loss, hope, and uncertainty. Navigating these transitions calls for more than practical planning—it requires emotional resilience and spiritual guidance. This post explores the emotional journey of significant life changes, reflecting on per
Martha Her
May 273 min read


¿Mariposas o Nudo?: La intensidad no siempre es “Amor”
¿Cuál es la definición del amor? ¿La de Dios, la del diccionario, la de la película “ Stella ”, la de “Mientras dormías ” y la de todas esas novelas que vi cuando era puberta y estaba fabricando el concepto en mi cabeza…? No sé si fueron las canciones o el cine, pero mi mente levantó —con presupuesto de Hollywood— la idea del “amor perfecto”… y, como era de esperarse, la realidad llegó tarde, mal y sin catering. Nadie llenó el molde del hombre ideal. Y —tristemente— yo tampo
Martha Her
Apr 1612 min read


Your Attachment Style Shows Up Behind the Wheel
A couple of years ago, I watched a movie on a plane called Unhinged , with Russell Crowe. Let me tell you something: even though I usually consider myself fairly resilient when it comes to intense scenes, that movie had me closing my eyes more than once and left my stomach in a knot. The story centers around a driver whose brief altercation at a traffic light triggers a terrifying road rage episode. He does not just lash out at the woman involved in the incident. He turns hi
Martha Her
Apr 26 min read


The Spiritual Journey of Following Bon Jovi
The Danger of Following Idols We all look up to someone. Whether it’s a musician, a political figure, or a social influencer, we seek role models to guide us. I thought Bon Jovi was my idol, and in many ways, he still is. But idols, no matter how talented or inspiring, are human and imperfect. They can’t carry the weight of our hopes or solve the deeper struggles we face. In today’s world, many people follow wicked leaders who spread hate and division. These leaders promise c
Martha Her
Mar 114 min read


The Voice That Said “Run”: Faith, Survival, and the Reality of Human Trafficking in Monterrey
“Years after a frightening encounter as a student, research helped me understand what I had survived.”
Martha Her
Feb 243 min read


Tuning into the Holy Spirit: A Practical Guide
Create a Quiet Space for Listening The first step to hearing the Holy Spirit is to quiet your mind and environment . Noise and distractions make it difficult to discern subtle spiritual promptings. Find a place where you can be alone and undisturbed. This could be a corner of your home, a park bench, or a church chapel. Turn off your phone or put it on silent. Sit comfortably and take deep breaths to calm your thoughts. Open your heart with a prayer asking the Holy Spirit to
Martha Her
Feb 233 min read


Words that POP UP in Court!
This series will be a growing mini-glossary of courtroom words and phrases that come up in real hearings. I’m a Federal Court Certified Spanish Interpreter (from Mexico) in Wisconsin with 13 years of experience—and I still encounter common terms that can momentarily slip away (which isn't good when you are in Court and everyone is waiting for you to interpret!) Each short highlights a term, my Spanish/English rendering, and invites community input. This is intended to be p
Martha Her
Feb 111 min read


When God Poked Me... With a Microphone
How a beach concert, a painful comment, and one answered prayer pushed me toward freedom. I live in Wisconsin, which is a beautiful place—if you are a penguin, a snowman, or a person who thinks “wind chill” is a fun personality trait. I am none of those things. I’m from Monterrey—one of the hottest cities in Mexico—and somehow I have survived 15 years in what often feels like a very polite glacier. Winters here are long, dark, and dramatic. Snowstorms show up like uninvited
Martha Her
Feb 67 min read


Embracing God's Promises: A Spiritual Journey
A Reminder of Love and Connection When life feels loud, confusing, or heavy, I come back to what never changes: God’s promises. It's like finding a cozy blanket on a chilly day—comforting and warm. This video is a simple prayerful reminder that you are seen, loved, and not alone. Press play and receive these five promises today. 🤍🙏 The Power of Prayer Have you ever noticed how a simple prayer can shift your entire day? It’s like hitting the refresh button on your spirit. Wh
Martha Her
Jan 212 min read


Innovative Digital Engagement Solutions with Online Interaction Tools
If you’ve ever found yourself scrolling endlessly through apps or websites, wondering, “Is there a better way to connect online?”—you’re not alone. I’ve been there too, craving something more meaningful, more alive in the digital space. That’s where innovative online interaction tools come into play, transforming how we engage with content and each other, especially when it comes to spiritual and immersive experiences. So, buckle up! We’re diving into a world where technolog
Martha Her
Jan 204 min read


I’m Not Your Enemy… So Why Are You Acting Like Mine? (Faith at Work, the Real Version)
Some people at work don’t like you.That’s life. That’s adulthood. That’s… fine. What I was not prepared for, though, is the coworker who acts like you’re besties—smiling, charming, friendly—while quietly trying to get you in trouble behind the scenes. That kind of “kindness” doesn’t feel kind. It feels like a trap. And it messes with your head. Because instead of focusing on doing your job well, you start living in watch-your-back mode . You double-check everything. You over
Martha Her
Jan 202 min read


Unlocking the Magic: Engagement Software Benefits You Can’t Ignore
Ever found yourself scrolling through a spiritual app or website and thought, “Wow, this feels different. It’s like it’s made just for me”? That’s the power of smart engagement tools at work. In today’s digital age, where everyone’s craving connection and meaning, engagement software benefits are more than just buzzwords—they’re the secret sauce to creating immersive, interactive experiences that truly resonate. Let’s dive into why these tools are game-changers, especially i
Martha Her
Jan 64 min read


Strengthening Your Connection with God: A Journey to Deep God Connection
Have you ever felt like your spiritual life is a bit like trying to tune an old radio? You twist the dial, hoping to catch that clear signal, but all you get is static. Well, guess what? You're not alone. Strengthening your connection with God can sometimes feel just like that - a bit fuzzy, a bit elusive. But here’s the good news: with a little intention, some practical steps, and a sprinkle of patience, you can tune in to a deep god connection that resonates loud and clear.
Martha Her
Jan 54 min read


Finding Peace in the Chaos of Life
Life often feels like a browser with 17 tabs open, each demanding attention, and one of them playing music you can’t quite locate. If you’re juggling unexpected repairs and big decisions that require waiting, you know how overwhelming it can be. Waiting tests our patience, especially for those who like to control every outcome. But there’s a way to find peace amid the noise and uncertainty. Finding calm in a busy workspace with many open tabs Understanding the Noise: Fear vs.
Martha Her
Jan 24 min read


Beyond the Paper Cut
Every day, life throws small hurdles our way—those tiny annoyances that seem to slow us down just when we want to move fast. Maybe it’s a paper cut, a traffic jam, or a forgotten grocery item. At first, these moments feel like nothing more than irritations. But what if they are more? What if these daily interruptions are actually a gentle nudge from God, asking us to pause, breathe, and grow stronger? This idea is the heart of my latest video, Feeling Blessed...yet Annoyed?
Martha Her
Dec 29, 20254 min read


Tail-Wagging Heart: A Playful Love Story
If this video makes you smile, laugh at yourself, or think of someone you love, then it has already done its job.
Martha Her
Dec 25, 20252 min read


Trusting the Journey: From Uncertain to Unimaginable
My journey required humility and acceptance, and through it all, God’s plan was at work—even when I couldn’t see it.
Martha Her
Dec 21, 20253 min read


From Diapers to Diplomas!
This page is home to Video 2 of the Restless Parents series , a reflection for parents whose children are growing up, but whose minds are still working the night shift. Here we talk about real life: parenting kids who are no longer kids brains that refuse to clock out at night faith that wrestles, questions, laughs, and keeps showing up learning to let go without guilt and finding peace without pretending we have it all figured out This isn’t a place for perfection or polish
Martha Her
Dec 18, 20251 min read


Restless Parents: Learning to Rest While God Stays Awake, part II
Article 2: Your Brain Is Still Parenting — Even When Your Children Are Grown One of the strangest things about parenting adult children is realizing that your body never got the memo. Your schedule may have changed.Your responsibilities may look different. But your brain? Your brain is still on duty. Our brain takes no time off. Why the Parent Brain Stays Alert The human brain is designed to protect attachment. When you love someone deeply — especially someone who once depend
Martha Her
Dec 16, 20253 min read
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